mallika

You told me to always have confidence
but now I have too much
told me not to tolerate everything
but now I'm too tough
you told me to show some emotion
but when I cry, I'm weak
can I ever be enough for you
what do you want from me

you told me that looks were n't everything
but now I look a mess
even told me to have fun as a child
cause the future will make me stressed
I listened to you then
give me a reason to you now
aren't you supposed to encourage my decisions
shouldn't you still be proud

I tried my best to give you want
been trying to impress you my whole life
when are you going to see
that I just wanna be me
I break down; always saying I'm sorry
name one sacrifice that you've done for me
when are you finally going to see
that I'm just me

what will it take
to let me live my life my way
and when will the time come
so you can let me be and do what I want
with all the confusing advice you gave
thanks for nothing, I won't need it anyway

I tried my best to give you what you wanted
but I'm done trying to impress you
it doesn't matter if you never see
I'm always gonna be me
no breaking down; no more sorries
you haven't done one thing for me
no, it doesn't matter if you never see
but I'm always gonna be me 

Here I lie,Broken Inside,                                    
Nowhere to go,
Nowhere to hide.

I'm left here all alone,
With no one by my side.
All I do is sit here and cry,
I'm so broken inside.

Too many problems,
Too many tears.
I'm bleeding blood and crying tears.
Unbearable pain, through all of these years.

No one in my life,
Really seems to care,
They go throughout their day,
Hardly noticing I'm here.

I'm alone in this world,
With nowhere to go,
Filled with so much sadness,
No one will ever know.

You can read it on my face,
You can see it in my eyes,
But no one ever takes the time to notice,
I'm broken inside.

If you go on to enlist the unavoidable moments your of life do not forget to add annoying people to your list. You will meet annoying people wherever you go. They will be there at your workplace as well as in your personal life. There are some people who annoy others purposely. Although they have been frankly told about their annoying nature by many in the past, it has become a habit for them. There are some people who annoy others unknowingly. It might be possible that these people are trying to overcome their poor communication skills and improve their workplace communication as well as effective communication skills. However, talking meaninglessly and talking too much annoys the rest!

Whatever may be the reason, you have to face such annoying people and you really cannot avoid them. You can avoid them once, twice, thrice, but you definitely cannot do it everyday and let me tell you a funny thing, the more you avoid or run away from such people, the more you will have to work with them or have to talk to them! So, what do you do then? Well, you can learn how to deal with annoying people and handle such people properly. However, people annoying you at your workplace are of a great concern, as you spend most of your time in the office. Here are some tips to deal with such people at your workplace...

How to Deal with Annoying People at Work

Silence is Golden!
Some annoying people have the habit of arguing on anything that comes to their mind. Many a times they know that they are wrong, but still they will argue for the sake of it. Many fools join this party and waste their time! However, you should not be one of them. If such a situation occurs, leave the place or else just stay silent and stick to the point. Remember, do not argue with such people, you will gain nothing but you will lose your precious time. So, the moral of the story is to keep quiet and simply turn around and continue with your work.

Keep Safe Distance!
One of the best methods for how to deal with difficult people is to avoid them. I am not suggesting you to run away the moment you see them! Just try to distance yourself from that person. Do not indulge yourself into brief debates or arguments, but try to maintain communication through e-mails. Whenever you meet such a person, have a short and sweet formal conversation and just leave the place. 

Remain Cool!
It is quite possible, that such people get into your nerves and you might just lose your temper. This can invite problems and unnecessary conflicts between you both and you will be held responsible for this, as you were the one who got angry and became abusive! So try to remain cool and calm as much as possible. The annoying person himself will relieve you if he finds you are not responding to anything.

Be Frank
Sometimes this technique works! Many a times you find yourself very much busy into some work and you really cannot pay attention to anything else. You might have to face annoying people at such instances even! At such instances, speak frankly to that person and tell him not to disturb you and let you work. But remember to be assertive. However busy you are, see that you do not hurt anyone's feelings.

Do Not Lose Focus
On some occasions, you have to talk to these people and you just cannot avoid it. If you are going to speak something work related or if it is an official meeting, see that you do not lose the focus of your main subject and just let this person drag the discussion somewhere else. If ever he tries to do such a thing, be sure that you bring him back on track. 

So that's all folks. These were some tips on how to deal with annoying people effectively. I have used them a couple of times myself. Just as a matter of fact, there is an annoying person hidden in every one of us. The only thing that makes them different is their annoying nature, way of communication or attitude. Many times you feel that it is always you who are targeted all the time by such people, however, it can just be a coincidence. These people behave in the same manner with everyone, it is only that you were present over there at that time. So, do not feel frustrated or give up in front of such people. Just deal with them. Believe me, it is the only way!